|Procrastinating Is Counterproductive|
Wednesday, September 19, 2012
Why Your Marriage Goal Isn't Happening
"Procrastination Is The Culprit"
Procrastination is the biggest dream killer of all times. "Doers" make their dreams come true, procrastinators never realize their dreams because all we do is dream about the things we really want for our lives, but never take all of the necessary steps to bring them to fruition.
Notice I said we, because I too am guilty as charged. I have had many successes in my life because I was a "doer", if I decided I wanted something, I took the steps to make it happen. Consequently, I have few "what ifs" to reflect on for my life.
However, I've noticed the absence of that trait since I'm older, and the older I get, the more prevalent that trait is becoming and I don't like it! Thus, I have decided to make a conscious effort to bring my dreams to fruition. First - publish my book that I have been sitting on for the last three years.
Secondly, find myself a good man and get married for the third and final time. I don't want to live the remainder of my life without a loving husband and companion - so I'm not. I must overcome this fear of failure that causes me to procrastinate, which ultimately kills my dreams, as well as the little voice in my head who feeds me excuses for not pursuing my dreams, i.e., you're too old, too this or too that!!!
So what about you, what's your excuse? Why haven't you been able to make your dream of becoming a happily married woman to the man of your dreams a reality? Is it procrastination brought on by the fear that you can't make it happen? Or, are you too lazy to do what you need to do to make this dream a reality? Do you spend your time dreaming of being happily married rather than doing what you know you need to do to meet and marry your dream man? Probably!
Well I am here to tell you, you can make this dream and any others you may have, a definite reality by breaking this bad habit of 'procrastinating'. You must stop dreaming about the life you want an start living it by become a "doer", and doing whatever it takes to bring your dreams to fruition. Make this declaration to yourself today as I have!!!
So you're saying, "so how do I do that Ms. Edna"? Like me, you simply stop dreaming and start doing. We've been talking about the steps to take to meet and marry our dream man on this blog for years. Those who jumped on the band wagon and took the necessary steps to fall in love with self, became the best woman they could be, then put themselves out there with an active and fulfilled life - found love and are now happily married to some awesome men.
On the other hand, us 'procrastinators', are still sitting on the vine - dreaming of being happily married instead of living that dream. Let's get it together ladies, it's now coming upon the end of another year, which will mark another year gone by that we didn't fulfill our dreams. As you can clearly see - time waits on no one, so let's get busy fulfilling our dreams - not tomorrow - NOW!!!
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Posted by Ms. Edna at 5:37 AM