New Year New You Challenge

Guidelines To Find The One & Get Married in 2012!
  

A new year brings new hope, new beginnings, new blessings and new opportunities.  We made it into the New Year, and if we are so blessed, we have yet another year and opportunity to meet the one and get married.  

Or, we can let another year come and go where we fail to take action and make some positive changes in our behavior that increases our chances of meeting & marrying the one!

Why not make 2012, the year that you finally make getting married top priority in your life.  The year you take getting yourself a loving and devoted husband seriously. The year you leave all the dumbness behind and develop a new attitude.  The year you do you and become a better you.

When you do - you will be successful in this quest - I guarantee it!  Hundreds of my readers throughout the world are now happily married as a direct result of adhering to the (15) guidelines listed further down.  

Finding a good man to marry is not as difficult as you have been led to believe, and hopefully you have learned that it is certainly not about pleasing men at all costs.  You just need to get out of your own way.  It's easy to make it happen when you are committed to the goal and open to some behavioral changes.  You must approach this goal just as you have all other goals you have successfully achieved - with unyielding fortitude. 

If you want to have an amazing dating life with some top notch and amazing men that could very well lead to your ‘getting a ring on it’ this year, pledge to adhere to the following (15) guidelines in 2012.

NEW YEAR PLEDGES

1.  I will love myself unconditionally flaws and all, and work diligently on becoming more confident, self-assured and out-going.

2.    I will strive to be the best ME I can possibly be in mind, body and spirit.

3.  I will maintain a normal Body Mass Index (BMI) by all means necessary to include healthy living, healthy eating and exercise.

4.      I will perfect my social graces, poise and posture. 

5.      I will learn how to apply my own makeup like a pro. 

6.    I will donate everything in my closet that is not figure flattering and that I don't look and feel fabulous in. 

7.  I will incorporate good grooming habits into my routine, i.e. daily bathing, skin care, weekly manicures, weekly hair care, monthly pedicures, monthly facials and monthly eye brow grooming.  If I don't want the expense of having a professional do some of these things, I will learn to do them myself.  No excuses allowed for poor grooming habits ever. 

8.   I will look my absolute, drop-dead gorgeous best every time I leave my home.

9.    I will constantly work on becoming  a more cheerful, friendly, approachable and likeable person by simply greeting everyone I come into contact, with a cheery “hello how are you”, a big smile, eye-contact, and a sincere compliment whenever possible.

10. I will build an active social life for myself by actively volunteering for my favorite charity or organization in a capacity where I regularly interact with other volunteers.  Commit to a hobby, sport or activity I enjoy that includes regular interaction or socializing with others. Regularly entertain and socialize with friends and family.

11.  I will only date men I am attracted to, admire, respect, and look up to.  Men that treat me very well and who actively pursue me.  In addition, I will date multiple men who fit this criteria until the one of my choice asks for exclusivity.

12. I will not engage in sex or heavy petting outside of a committed relationship without exception.

13.  I will only say YES to what I want and never, ever to what I don’t want. 

14.  I will not chase men or waste time and energy trying to analyze the behavior of men, what he's thinking, feeling, etc.  I will take a man's actions at face value and always act accordingly without foolish analyzation.  His actions will clearly state what I need to know.

15.  I will love, honor and respect myself above all others. 
     

I bet you thought this list was going to be all about men and pleasing them.  Don't you guys know me better than that by now?  Acquiring an amazing dating life that leads to marriage is never about a man, it’s all about you!  All of the above listed guidelines are for your benefit only and will boost your self-esteem, self-love, self-worth, and self-confidence to immeasurable proportions.  All of which are the tools you need to have an amazing dating life, find the one and get married! I refer to this method as loving yourself all the way to the altar.  

Please don't apply these pledges A La Carte expecting positive results.  If you can't commit to doing each and everyone of them - don't bother, it's the whole hog or nothing!  You can't become a self-assured confident women with half-ass effort, and you can't have an amazing dating life until you are.  None of these pledges are difficult, as usual only dedication and determination is required.  You can do it!!!

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