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Don't Date Without It!
Once you build your self-esteem to the highest degree, you will thoroughly enjoy looking for the man of your dreams, dating, and creating a lasting relationship that evolves into marriage.
No longer will you be sitting by the telephone anticipating phone calls, spending useless hours with your girls analyzing a man's behavior and feelings, attempting to read a man's mind, and begging them to treat you right and to stay with you.
Basically, you will become your own woman and miraculously, dating becomes all about you. What you need, what you want, what you will and will not do, and what you absolutely will not tolerate. You will take back your power and stop allowing men to call all of the shots by removing yourself from the emotional merry-go-round of dating and mating, and become a self-reliant and self-confident woman that no man can resist.
None of us respect insecure, clingy and needy people, especially us women. Yet at the same time, many of us possess these exact same characteristics and expect the men we interact with to like it. Now come on girls, how much sense does that make?
Don't feel bad, we have all been there at one time or another, but that certainly doesn't mean that we have to stay there. Even Oprah, the most powerful woman in the world, speaks of hanging on to the bumper of a former lover's car as she begged him not to leave. Who can imagine her doing that now? No one, as her self-esteem is soaring and so can yours, you just have to work on it. Make it your business to do whatever it takes to love yourself, respect yourself, and develop unshakable self-confidence and high self-esteem. These factors are key to finding and maintaining love.
You can start this journey by putting yourself at the very top of your priority list, treat yourself the way you want to be treated, talk to yourself the way you talk to people you respect, and look into the mirror every single day and tell yourself how much you love, admire and respect you. It won't be long before you start to live up to and believe this statement.
I love you all - have a fantastic day!
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3 comments:
It seems so basic, but I've witnessed that the way I treat myself and uphold my ideals, models for everyone around me the same thing. I am a beautiful princess, a woman on the move, one worthy of that extra time a man spends holding the door, or the pronounced effort he makes in ensuring I'm comfortable. It's become standard across the board because "I" accepted that I worthy of such treatment. I love it!
@Lisa...Way to go Lisa, that's what I'm talking about!
Lisa is on point, its so basic it loses its relevance. But how we treat ourself is in direct proportion to how others treat us. I really appreciate all the posts you do on the subject, because self-confidence, self-respect and self-esteem is a healing and huge deal.
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