Friday, December 9, 2016

MS. EDNA'S DIGNITY, PRIDE & SELF-RESPECT MOVEMENT FOR WOMEN!

"Empowering Women To Take Our Power 
Back From Men"

In our movement, we must accept and appreciate that women are the prize in this game called 'LOVE', and we deserve to be pursued, courted, loved, and lavished with attention and affection.  Men can't recognize our value when we are the ones doing all of the giving.  Men fall in love with us when they are the one doing the majority of the giving; it's the masculine characteristic that is in their DNA.  

Wise women know that when a man devotes time, energy, attention, affection, and money into a woman, he invests in her, and she becomes very valuable to him.  Also, wise women, know that they must show their gratitude for his love, attention, and affection by genuinely appreciating, admiring, respecting, and looking up to him as her hero.  All of which further increases his love, overall commitment, and satisfaction with the relationship.

I'm here to teach women a new way of interacting with men, and your selection thereof, by always conducting yourself with dignity, pride, and self-respect; by basically loving the heck out of YOU!  If you follow these principles, as well as dignified ones of your own, you will remove yourself from the ranks of women who so often declare, "there are no good men".  Thereby, opening yourself up to the large pool of really nice, high-quality guys that really do exist in our society.   

Desperation for a man, stemmed from the fear of being alone and man-less, has caused many women (myself included) to develop the 'disease to please syndrome', and lower our standards by choosing unacceptable men into our lives.  Men whom we neither admire, respect, or look up to.

My goal  for this movement, is to empower women to take back our power by releasing ourselves from this 'please a man at all costs' attitude, and fear of being alone and man-less.  I want to prepare women to eagerly enter into the dating world filled with oodles of self-love, self-confidence, dignity, pride, and self-respect.  Knowing they are equipped to accurately handle any problems that come their way, and worthy of the attention they will be receiving from 'high quality' men.

Therefore, let's get it on!  Keep reading my blog and stay tuned for for my new book.  A self-empowering guide that teaches you step-by-step how to achieve your dreams of being loved, honored, cherished, and married to a totally awesome guy!  I will be your personal dating coach via my new book for just $9.99.
 
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Wednesday, December 7, 2016

USE DATING AS AN ASSESSMENT TOOL!

 "To Determine Who Fits Your Criteria & Where 
Things Could Potentially Go"

 

This phase does not include anything of a sexual nature at all, including kissing, other than an occasional friendly hug, or friendly peck on the cheek.  It does however, entail deep and revealing conversations.  During this period, both parties get to know all about each other by revealing their true character during many enlightening conversations.  You will share your views on various topics, such as premarital sex, unwed pregnancy, cohabitation, etc.  In addition the two of you should make it know what you will and will not tolerate once in an intimate relationship.  This will prevent surprises on both parts should the two of you decide to enter into a relationship.  Not only that, when two people disclose their standards to each other during this assessment period of dating, it gives each party the option of bowing out of the dating phase should things b revealed that one or the other can't live with or without.

These type of conversations will occur from time to time while on dates, or during telephone conversations.  You must make it known that you are dating to find a suitable boyfriend, that could possibly lead to marriage.  You must also ask your dates to reveal why they are dating as well.  Never be afraid to convey your standards.  If he runs, he was obviously not the type of man that you are looking for, and you must keep it moving.  Also, always state your values, opinions, and views confidently, cheerfully, and calmly; never angrily, obnoxiously or defensively.

In addition, there is no obligation whatsoever on either part while assessment dating. Therefore, it should be made clear that each of you are free to date as many people as each of you choose.  I encourage you to date in multiples and to only date those whom you admire, respect, and hold in high regard.  These traits will be invaluable once you are in an exclusive relationship and marriage as well.  The only restrictions in assessment dating is to have fun, no sex, and allowing men to take the lead should he decide to make you his girlfriend and you agree to it.

Finally, assessment dating should not  last for more than 3 or 4 months.  This is more than enough time to determine whether or not you are really interested in one particularly guy, your compatibility, and if you're into each other enough to enter into a boyfriend/girlfriend exclusive relationship.

So, have fun and good luck in finding that special someone!!!


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Monday, December 5, 2016

SELF-CONFIDENCE IS PIVOTAL WHEN DATING

 "No Goal Has Ever Been Achieved Without It"

If your goal is to date, find the one, and get married; as I''m sure it is for most women who date.  You must be prepared and determined to achieve this goal, and self-confidence is a must.  You can't fake self-confidence.  Either you have it or you don't, and it is easily detected by the way you walk, talk, and present yourself.  

This is one of the key reasons why I overemphasize stepping up your game (both inside and out) prior to entering the dating game.  Your self-love, self-worth, self-esteem, self-confidence, and self-respect must be on point.  Why?  Because these factors are your protection against settling, being used, kicked to the curb, and otherwise having your heart broken or trampled on.  

There is a huge difference in how self-confident women behave when dating and in relationships.  Check out the website below and get in the know:


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Wednesday, November 30, 2016

HOW TO GET A RING!

 “Date  Right and Land Yourself A Top Quality Guy”

 


In order to have success with dating today, you must love yourself, first and foremost! Then, you must up your game, set high standards for yourself, and develop self-respecting dating skills. Last, but certainly not least, you must be very selective when choosing men to date, and only date those you admire, respect, and look up to.

Remember there is a big difference between dating and being in a relationship, so keep dating lighthearted, lots of fun, and very enlightening.  Subsequently, should you decide to enter into an exclusive relationship with one of the men you date, both of you will be fully equipped to make the decision to take your dating to the next level. 

Once in a relationship, you must be careful to maintain dignity, pride, self-respect, and don't behave like a wife until you actually become his wife.  Remember to reserve certain behavior for "husbands only." This will ensure that you get that ring!



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Monday, November 28, 2016

IT’S SO WRONG TO TRY TO CHANGE MEN!

 “So Go For the Type of Man That You Really Want”

It is a common mistake of women to think that they have the power to mold a man into who they want him to be.  The bottom line, we only have the power to change ourselves.   Plenty of women allow themselves to fall in love with men that they don't admire or respect, myself included.  So what do we do when we fall in love with men that we are not in wonder, pleasure, or approval of?  We attempt to mold them into the type of man that we admire, by criticizing, ridiculing and condemning them.  Or, we just become more and more disgusted with their behavior and turn away from them.  


In either case, this is a huge injustice to men, whereas you will come out the loser, as your unhappiness overshadows the relationship.  A man’s greatest need is to be admired, respected and appreciated by the woman they love.   The more disgusted with him that you become, or the more you try to change him, the both of you will become much more unhappy.  Him, as he comes to realize that the woman he loves, and in many cases married, doesn't like who he is, much less admire, appreciate or respect him. You, because you settled for a lesser man than you really need, want, and can appreciate.



As you can clearly see, choosing men we don't admire and respect spells DOOM for a relationship?  So forget about the fact that he's cute, he really likes you, the sex is off the chain, etc.  DO YOU ADMIRE, RESPECT and LOOK UP TO HIM?  IS HE YOUR HERO?  He has to be if you truly want to find true love and lasting happiness!


In conclusion, take time to learn all about you, your needs, your desires and must-haves in a man.  Then embrace that girl in the mirror and fall madly in love with her.  Next, take time to dig deep within and identify the qualities that you admire most in a man and never again date men who don't meet this criteria.  By so doing you will find true love and happiness, I guarantee it.  The heart tends to be a little fickle when it comes to love, I'm speaking from experience. 
 


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Thursday, November 17, 2016

MUST HAVE QUALITIES FOR MEN YOU DATE!

 "You Must Admire, Respect, Look Up To,  And Hold The Men You Date In High Regard"

First of all, I want to remind all of you that there is a huge difference between dating and being in a relationship.  Dating is a non-sexual relationship between two people who have decided to spend time together socially, and regularly talk on the phone, to assess their compatibility as potential partners for an intimate relationship, or a spouse.  The result of this dating arrangement may lead to a friendship, an intimate relationship, an intimate relationship that evolves into marriage, or no relationship at all.  The sole purpose of dating is for both parties to determine whether or not they wish to enter into an exclusive relationship.  

Keep in mind that dating does not include anything of a sexual nature, including kissing - other than an occasional friendly hug, or a friendly peck on the cheek.  This is an extremely important aspect of dating, especially when you will be dating several men at one time.  It's also extremely important that you make your dates aware of your views on dating and the rules thereof, early on, preferably before the first date. This ensures that you and your dates are on the same page and fully aware of the differences between being in a relationship and merely dating, and the both of you are free to date others.  This is called "dating with dignity, pride, and self-respect"!

As most of you already know, you will choose to enter into an exclusive relationship with a man that you date and will possibly marry.  Therefore, it's important that you only date men whom you admire, respect, and look up to.  These traits will be invaluable once you are in an exclusive relationship, and particularly when married.  A man's greatest need is to loved, admired, respected, appreciated, and held in high regard by the woman he loves and who loves him as well.
Thus, the message here is crystal clear.  ONLY DATE THOSE MEN WHOM YOU ADMIRE, RESPECT, AND LOOK UP TO, and HOLD IN HIGH REGARD!!!


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Monday, November 14, 2016

Stay In Your Dating & Relationships Lanes

"This Motivates Men To Marry"
Know that men are very logical, if they can't see any benefits to taking a wife, they won't; it's that simple.  Quite frankly, it makes good sense to me, I wouldn't buy a cow either, if I were already getting all of the milk I wanted for free.  So many women have this bad habit of treating boyfriends like he's their husband.  It is no wonder that so many men today are opting not to get married.  Why should they?  They have all of the benefits of a husband without any of the obligations or responsibility; so why would they get married?

No matter how much in love you may find yourself, stay in your lane, and don't forget your place.  Remember that you are his girlfriend until you are his wife, and both carry entirely different roles.  Trust and believe, whatever your man's needs are, he's a grown man and he will figure it out.  Just don't give a boyfriend all that you have to give, ever!  Let him know, lovingly of course, that marriage to you comes with some awesome benefits.  

Benefits labeled, "for husbands only".  This includes becoming his housekeeper, cook, constant companion, on demand sex partner, having his babies, and fellatio.  Yeah, I said fellatio, if that's your thing, please reserve this act for your husband. Men talk and brag about this act to other men.  It's rare to find a married man who discusses his sexual relations with his wife to other men.  Not only that, this is a reputation you most certainly don't won't hanging over your head.  In fact, I hope you have become one of many single women who are opting to remain celibate until married.  Not giving your all and not playing 'wifey' will give your man plenty of incentives to marry you, in  order for him to reap all of the benefits of a married man..

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Wednesday, November 9, 2016

If He Cheats With You, He'll Cheat On You!

"There Is No Exception To This Rule"


It literally sickens me when the mistress of a married man has the nerve to feel betrayed and wounded, when he cheats on her.  The first mistake that these women make with married men, is being flattered by their flirtatious advances and, actually believing that they are so irresistible, he has an uncontrollable attraction for them.  They never look at his actions as a serious character flaw, as well as an immature way of handling problems.  

They also have a tendency to overlook his faults and blame his wife for his cheating.  For instance, they say things like, “his wife has let herself go and looks terrible”, “she is mean to him and denies him sex”, or “she focuses on the kids and neglects him”, etc.  The justifications for his behavior as well as their own can go on and on, as if his wife’s shortcomings, justifies his cheating as well as their sleeping with him.

Becoming involved with a married man is a no-win situation of which you will be the ultimate loser.  You will be the loser if he never leaves his wife, and you will be the loseer if he does leave his wife and marries you.   Think about it, you will be marrying a ‘cheater’.  You have proof positive that he’s a cheater, because he cheated on his wife with you.  These men are habitual liars as well as ‘cheaters’.  They tell you lies to cover-up being intimate with their wife, and tell her lies to cover-up their affair with you.  

As you can clearly see, this is a man totally unworthy of trust, and trust is the core of all loving and successful relationships.  There is absolutely no dignity, pride, or self-respect in sleeping with another woman’s husband.  Not to mention the pain that you cause his wife and children, if he has children.  I’m talking severe pain, which has the potential to wreak havoc on the lives of the entire family.  In regard to children, possibly for the rest of their lives. 

 In closing, do yourself a favor, and avoid married men like the plague!!!

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