Wednesday, May 6, 2015

10-YEAR OLD RAPED BY STEP-FATHER DENIED ABORTION


"MOTHER IS ARRESTED, STEP-FATHER 
ON THE RUN"

Judicial systems worldwide have a history of taking sexual child abuse way to lightly.  Even in this country, child sex abusers go unpunished or receive a slap on the wrist from our courts.  

Sexual child abuse should be punishable by death in my opinion as this crime is so heinous, in that it literally destroys the self-esteem  of it's young victims.  Babies as young as two weeks old have been sexually abused.  Unfortunately, these crimes are committed most often by family members, many times by biological fathers.

In the case of this 10-year old in PARAGUAY who is being denied an abortion as a result of being raped by her step-father, is a prime example of how lightly judicial system treat child abuse.  The child's mother was arrested when she brought the girl to the hospital because her stomach was swollen.  Yet when she reported the stepfather's sexual abuse in 2014, nothing was done to him.  Consequently, he is now on the run.

My point for this post, is to once again alert your guys to the importance of carefully selecting the men we allow into our lives and our homes as boyfriends and husbands.

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Monday, May 4, 2015

ARE WE FAST BECOMING AN UNDISCIPLINED SOCIETY?





THE MEDIA, AS USUAL IS PROMOTING THIS LACK OF SELF-DISCIPLINE!!!

They are preying on our laziness and lack of motivation to be the best we can be, by trying to convince us that being fat and immoral behavior is not only OK, but normal.  There is a growing trend towards being fat and/or obese for both men and women.

Not too long ago, watching TV was motivational, as fit and trim men were portrayed, as were thin, women.  Nowadays, the men being portrayed on TV look like they are anywhere from 5-9 months pregnant, and most women look like wide receivers.  It is sad but oh so true.  I expect that in years too come we will have become a society of undisciplined fatties.

The latest trend is "DAD BODS", whereas the ever increasing number of overweight men in society are being told their fat bodies are the preference of women over that of physically fit men.  This trend was promoted on Good Morning America on Friday morning, May 1, 2015.  This is their go ahead to eat whatever they please and not worry about their weight.  WOW!!!

This along with the media's promotion of sexual promiscuity among women is deplorable.  If you are comfortable with being fat, being labeled a ho, a slut, easy, etc.  Run as far away from this blog as you can get, as I am a huge advocate of women striving to be the best they can be, and conducting themselves with dignity, pride & self-respect in virtually every aspect of their lives, specifically with men and sex.  Thereby, once again becoming worthy of being honored and respected as women, as GOD intended.

Our society is going to hell in a hand basket, as is evidenced by the media, with their constant approval and portrayals of fat, lewd, indecent and/or ridiculous behavior.  All of which makes it difficult for some people to maintain their common sense, self-discipline, and moral high ground.  Not to mention dignity, pride and self-respect.  Ladies, please set your own standards for yourself, your life, your men, and protect these values like a pit-bull!!!

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Wednesday, April 29, 2015

DON'T HATE YOUR FELLOW SISTERS


Beyonce may be prettier, but I bet you speak better!
"APPRECIATE THEM"

In your journey to become the very best YOU possible, forgive yourself for all of your indiscretions, especially envy of other women.   

This will be an easy task once you stop competing with other women, and accept the fact that there will always be women who have qualities you wish you had.  Stop focusing on what you don't have, make them the absolute best that you can, and praise the qualities that you soar in.  

As beautiful, talented and rich as my idol, Christie Brinkley is, she too has competition from others who are prettier, younger, and richer.  But, this fact doesn't faze her because she is secure, confident and satisfied within herself.

All we can do to feel secure, confident and satisfied with ourselves, is to be the best we can possibly be.  This breeds self-confidence and extinguishes insecurities.  By the same token,, if you know that you are overweight, sloven in your appearance, unambitious, etc.  This behavior breeds insecurities, and jealousy towards women who possess the qualities you desire but lack.  

Therefore, don't hate her for qualities she has and you lack, let her be your motivator to be a better you.  Instead of hating on her, compliment her.  This too will do wonders for your self-esteem and self-confidence, as well as tarnish your insecurities.  When we are nice and complimentary of others, it boosts our own self-esteem.  We love ourselves when we are nice to others.

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Monday, April 27, 2015

YOU DON'T HAVE TO TRICK OR BAMBOOZLE MEN TO CATCH ONE!

"JUST BE YOUR OWN SELF-LOVING, SELF-CONFIDENT & GLAMOROUS SELF"

I don't know where this insane rhetoric developed that men are hard to catch, and therefore women must resort to tricks and other degrading, silly and foolish behavior to get them to pursue us, court and eventually marry us.  In fact, a man who requires this much work, is usually not worth having.  If you have bought into this rhetoric, don't feel bad about yourself, as most women have at one time or another, myself included.  

Again, we are being fed a bunch of B.S. by the media and other sources for profit and the sole benefit of men, under the disguise that they are trying to help us fulfill our dreams of being happily married to a great guy!

Ladies, I promise you, if you will just fall madly in love with yourself, strive to be the best YOU possible, get a life and live it to the fullest glamorously; in addition to conducting yourself with dignity, pride and self-respect, you will not have a problem meeting great guys, perking their interest in getting to know you, cultivating a relationship and/or getting married.  

YOU and only YOU are the key to your success in landing a great guy and getting married.   Therefore, don't believe the hype that men are hard to get and they, not you are the prize.

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Wednesday, April 22, 2015

TRAITS TO SEEK IN A POTENTIAL HUSBAND!

 
"Three (3) Traits That Are Critical To A 
Satisfying Marriage"

 As always ladies, you know I am a stickler for becoming the person you seek.  Therefore, if you don't possess the qualities you seek in a mate, by all means develop them.  You can't expect a man who possesses these qualities to view a woman who doesn't as a potential spouse.

First and foremost, he must have a strong belief in conjugal faithfulness and high moral values. This is of number one importance in monogamous relationships and especially marriage.  In case you hadn't noticed, few men feel that it is wrong to cheat on their spouse or mate, especially if they feel justified.  In fact, some view it as their nature to cheat, and therefore their GOD-GIVEN right.  

Being that this is the attitude of so many men, it is imperative that we have a serious discussion with a man we are considering as a mate/husband regarding his views on fidelity.  We can also gain pertinent information on his views on this matter by how accepting he is of the infidelity of others, especially his friends.  Last but not least, if he is cheating on a spouse or mate with you, he's a professed cheater.

Unless one is a complete idiot, you cannot be happy and content with a cheater.  You will eventually leave him or he will leave you for another.  In either case, his infidelity will lower your self-esteem significantly although temporarily if you are strong-willed.  At any rate - who needs it?  Not to mention the anguish and despair that accompanies being cheated on.   

Therefore, make sure to have this conversation, keep your eyes and ears open, and run for your life at the slightest hint that he's a cheater and, has low moral values.  As we all know, a person with low morals, be they male or female, are capable of most anything.

There is no justifiable excuse for cheating, if one's needs aren't being met in a marriage that makes them so unhappy he/she considers bringing in a third party, it's time to get a divorce.  It is never your fault that a man makes the decision to cheat, as many men justify their cheating behavior, i.e., "you were ignoring me, I was unhappy", etc.  

Never accept the blame for another persons indiscretions. Therefore, have the conversation to make sure the two of you are on the same page regarding infidelity.  If he justifies infidelity for any reason, this is a red flag.  Believe it or not, there are plenty of men who view infidelity as unjustifiable just as there are women.  We have got to stop playing with boys who call themselves men, and seek out real men!

In addition to avoiding cheaters, make sure to seek a man who is romantic, as a romantic man makes us feel loved and appreciated.  Also, make sure the man you choose is the type of man that you admire, respect and look up to.  Follow these guidelines and you are ensuring your success in a happy marriage for a lifetime.

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Monday, April 20, 2015

IS THE MEDIA INFLUENCING YOUR DIGNITY, PRIDE & SELF-RESPECT?


 "BUYER BEWARE OF THE GOODS YOU ARE 
BEING SOLD"

I was watching HGTV this morning where an unmarried couple were being shown homes to buy. I was appalled at how the commentator portrayed this live-in arrangement as perfectly normal and acceptable. She seemed to celebrate their decision to move in together and buy a home. It's no wonder so many women are having babies out of wedlock and cohabiting with men who won't marry them, when the media celebrates these instances. 

Talk about putting the horse before the cart. What happened to marriage first, then living together. and then having babies? Just beware, and understand that just because the media says it so, doesn't make it right or moral. Nor does it excuse the stupid decisions you make with your body, your lifestyle and/or with men.

It is not under any circumstances advantageous for women to co-habit, much less have a man's baby whom you are not married too. I can accept this behavior more readily with the young and dumb. But we are talking grown ass women who make these stupid decisions daily. Ladies, where is your dignity, pride and self-respect? 

There is no dignity, pride or self-respect in cohabiting or having babies out of wedlock. Why and how does one make the decision to have unprotected sexual relationships with boyfriends? I mean really, what is the benefit for you in arriving at this decision? And, cohabiting. Why would you make the decision to be a wife without the benefits of being a real wife, especially when he doesn't think enough of you to  even offer you the job?
No doubt about it, movies, television, and the print media heavily influence the behavior of our society. More specifically, the behavior of women for the sole benefit, pleasure and needs of men. Behavior, all of which are portrayed as normal behavior. 

I have been watching a great deal of television since being home bound and stricken with severe rheumatoid arthritis. It literally sickens me how the media depicts immoral behavior for women as perfectly acceptable and normal. Basically, the media is teaching women to behave like sluts and cater to every sexual need of men. WOW! I'm appalled. 

Even at that, I'm not one to blame others for our own stupid decisions, so put your big girl panties on and accept full responsibility for your decisions, the good ones, the bad ones, and the ugly ones. Only then can you rectify them and incorporate dignity, pride, self-respect and self-love into your lives.

I look back at some of the stupid decisions I have made in my lifetime as a grown ass woman, and think “You were a stupid bitch”. However, my acceptance of my own stupidity has made me the self-loving, dignified and self-respecting woman that I am today.  They were all great learning lessons!!!

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Monday, March 30, 2015

PUT YOURSELF IN THE DATING DRIVERS SEAT & ENJOY THE RIDE!

"Adapting To A Lifestyle of Dignity, Pride & Self-Respect Is Key"

Ladies! You don't have to be door-mats or man-pleasers in order to enjoy dating in your quest to find true love and a husband.  Just be friendly, fun to be with, interesting, interested, cordial, and self-loving.  And, as always, conduct yourself with dignity, pride and self-respect. 

Dignity is conducting yourself in a manner that is worthy of honor and respect from others

Pride is a feeling of deep pleasure or satisfaction derived from one's own achievements and qualities that are widely admired.

Self-Respect, is being proud of who you are, even with the mistakes you made in the past. It means looking yourself in the mirror and being proud of the person looking back at you. It means not compromising your values.

Ms. Edna gives sound dating advice to single women. Advice, if followed, guarantees your success in creating a loving relationship with a GOOD man that results in marriage. Log onto msedna.blogspot.com daily and learn how to love yourself all the way to the altar! THIS BLOG IS COPYRIGHTED - ALL RIGHTS RESERVED © msedna.blogspot.com 2007-2015 Disclaimer: All images posted on this site are copyrighted by their respective owners. MsEdna.blogspot.com makes no claims of ownership or credit for these photos whatsoever unless duly noted.

Tuesday, March 24, 2015

Don't Focus On Getting A Man To Fall In Love With You

"Focus On Falling In Love With Yourself"

I am so sick and tired of everybody and their brother encouraging women to be total fools for men.  Everywhere I look, there are headlines encouraging women to behave like fools in their quest to love, be loved, and married, i.e.:
  • How to get a man to fall in love with you.
  • How to please a man.
  • How to do this that or the other to get a man.
It is so insulting and embarrassing.  They are all playing on our incessant desire to love and be loved, for their own personal financial gain.  Worse, women are falling for these tactics hook, line and sinker, and behaving stupidly for love.  First of all, you don't have to resort to losing your dignity or playing games to evoke love from anyone.  

All you have to be is your dignified, prideful, self-respecting, confident, and fabulous self. All of which comes about naturally once you fall head over hills in love with YOU.  Then you won't have to fall for all of these insane tactics for finding love, as your new attitude will be, "Why wouldn't any man want to fall in love with me, I'm all that and a bag of chips"?

Ladies, take back your dignity, pride, and self-respect while seeking love, by loving yourself first and foremost. I promise that once you do, everything else will fall into place; namely your happiness whether you are coupled up or happily single!

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Tuesday, March 10, 2015

DISCARD THE DISEASE TO PLEASE

"It's Hindering Your Success In Love Relationships"

Unfortunately some women actually believe that pleasing men, particularly in bed, is how they win their love and affection.  These are women who confuse love with pleasing, and nothing could be further from the truth.  

This desire to please, especially with men, causes us to make poor choices in men, and poor decisions.  Decisions that wreak havoc on relationships, as people don't like or respect those who put the needs of others before their own.  That's not to say that men won't take full advantage of this weakness, but it certainly doesn't evoke their respect, much less their love.

Personally, I equate people pleasers to control freaks.  People who use pleasing others as a tactic to control and get them to do what they want.  Either way, both are ineffective tools in gaining true love and affection from another.  Therefore, if you have these tendencies, you will have to discard them in your search for true love and affection.

Ms. Edna gives sound dating advice to single women. Advice, if followed, guarantees your success in creating a loving relationship with a GOOD man that results in marriage. Log onto msedna.blogspot.com daily and learn how to love yourself all the way to the altar! THIS BLOG IS COPYRIGHTED - ALL RIGHTS RESERVED © msedna.blogspot.com 2007-2015 Disclaimer: All images posted on this site are copyrighted by their respective owners. MsEdna.blogspot.com makes no claims of ownership or credit for these photos whatsoever unless duly noted.

Wednesday, February 25, 2015

HOW DO I MEET THE ONE?

“Easily & Patiently”

E-Mail From A Reader:
Ms. Edna, I am having a difficult time meeting men, and frustrated by the situation. What can I do to turn this situation around? Anonymous

To Anonymous and other women who are feeling her same frustrations:

First and foremost become the best YOU possible, by totally upgrading YOURSELF! Become the well groomed, well dressed, friendly, considerate, happy-go-lucky female that carries herself with dignity, pride and self-respect. The woman that all of us love, admire, respect and look up to, whether we are self-assured enough to admit it or not. 

Miraculously, this will build your self-confidence, and love of self. Once this happens, you will meet and greet all people, male and female alike with a sincere smile, and a friendly, jubilant hello (nothing more & nothing less).  People will automatically gravitate towards you, because you are approachable. Consequently, you will make many, many friends from both genders.  

However, be safe and beware of the weirdos', and don't give out your number to every guy who asks for it.  Only give it to those you genuinely feel will fit into your criteria once you get to know them better.  Always follow your gut about people, it never fails us.

Create a life for yourself that is enjoyable, self-fulfilling, busy, and satisfying. I can't stress this enough as this is the key to living happily single until the man of your dreams comes along and you get married. Mind you, I said until you get married, as this is the only time that a man will appreciate you making him top priority in your life.

Date in multiples, but only men that you admire, respect and look up to. As well as men who fit the criteria you have given careful consideration and outlined on paper.  Memorize the qualities that you must have in a mate to be happy and content. Continue dating in carefully selected multiples until the man of your dreams asked you to stop dating others, and enter into an exclusive relationship with him.

Living your single life in this manner, not only is satisfying, but gives you healthy choices in selecting the one who is right for you. 
Ms. Edna gives sound dating advice to single women. Advice, if followed, guarantees your success in creating a loving relationship with a GOOD man that results in marriage. Log onto msedna.blogspot.com daily and learn how to love yourself all the way to the altar! THIS BLOG IS COPYRIGHTED - ALL RIGHTS RESERVED © msedna.blogspot.com 2007-2015 Disclaimer: All images posted on this site are copyrighted by their respective owners. MsEdna.blogspot.com makes no claims of ownership or credit for these photos whatsoever unless duly noted.