What I hear most from single women that are in search of the one and haven't found him yet, "I'm so lonely." I'm always saddened by this statement as it originates from a place of fear, the fear of being alone. You don't have to be lonely just because you are alone. The fear of being alone for women is detrimental, as it causes us to settle for men less than what we really want. And, once in a relationship, it causes us to contend with habitual cheaters, and other hurtful, unfulfilling relationships.
Loneliness is a state of mind that signifies your unhappiness with your life as it is. Therefore, you must work diligently at making yourself happy, as you should never rely upon other people to make you happy. Happiness comes from within. Work hard to create a happy life for yourself in spite of being alone. Get into a happy place and build a rich, full and exciting life for yourself, one that you absolutely love. Then, when you do meet the one, he will enhance your happiness, and not be responsible and burdened with creating a life for you and making you a happy person. I mean seriously, "who needs or wants that burden in their life"?
When I took on this endeavor, I found it easier to start with myself. So I recommend that you take the necessary steps to learn to love and respect yourself first and foremost. You do this by doing some serious inner and outer self-evaluation. Anything you don't like about yourself - change it; with the goal being to be the best you possible!
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The Internet consists of a wealth of information, some good and some bad. Learn to decipher the difference and utilize this information highway. It has helped me tremendously in my quest to fall madly in love with ME and to become the best ME possible. Make both your goal and life will become much more enjoyable as you wait patiently on the one!!!
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