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Wednesday, April 16, 2014

DID JOAN & RAY J CROSS THE LINE WITH EMULATED SEX TAPE?

 "YES!!! HE'S A JERK & SHE'S A STUPID OLD BIATCH"

This is old news, but new to me, as I just got wind of this debauchery.  As we all know, Ray J never misses an opportunity to take a jab at Kim K., so his part in this debauchery doesn't shock me.  He proved himself to be a total jerk when he made a couple of songs about Kim.  Joan Rivers will obviously do anything to remain relevant - so I have deemed her a "Stupid Old Biatch"!  

Some folks in Hollywood never cease to amaze me.  So ladies, let's not hate, let's allow "Stupid Biatches" to motivate us to be "Stupid Biatches No Mo," and joyfully live our lives with dignity, pride and self-respect at all costs.

 

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Tuesday, April 15, 2014

The Kim Kardashian Road To Success?

 

TALK ABOUT A STUPID BIATCH - THIS ONE TAKES THE CAKE!

Mimi Faust of Love & Hip Hop of Atlanta is so determined to be a Hollywood success, she has stooped to making a sex tape with her boyfriend and publicizing it with Vivid Entertainment.  In the infamous words of Florida, "Damn, Damn, Damn"!  This "Stupid Biatch" doesn't have a thread of dignity, pride or self-respect.  Not only that, she has a 4-year old daughter, the poor baby.  All for fame and fortune, what some women won't do for love, fame or money.  She is too stupid to realize that these tactics have yet to make a black woman rich or famous (remember Laurence Fishburne's daughter).

Now, let's talk about this low-life that she calls her boyfriend.  What type of man exploits himself like this, and allows his woman to exploit and degrade herself as well?  A real scum bag - that's what!  Certainly not the type of man that a self-loving woman with dignity, pride and self-respect would even wipe her feet on!  Check out the tape below, I must warn you - it's hardcore porn.

In closing, let's pray for our sister that she comes to her senses and realize that degrading herself is not the road that one has to take for fame and fortune.  GOD bless her and may he give her the wisdom to regain her dignity, pride and self-respect.

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Monday, April 14, 2014

HOW DID WOMEN BECOME MERE SEX OBJECTS?


THE MEDIA!

We've got our work cut out for us ladies, as we strive to love ourselves and regain some dignity, pride and self-respect about ourselves.  Because we reside in a society that totally disrespects women and steers us toward indecency in order to get ahead financially, and satisfy the sexual appetite of  men.  It has become common place and socially acceptable in the media to have women displayed half-naked and in some sort of sexually explicit position. 

I don't know about you, but I despise the way that the media, via magazines, movies, TV, etc. has totally tarnished the reputation of women by degrading and exploiting us.  Unfortunately, this sex sells phenomenon has caused many women to accept all of this propaganda as truth.  Consequently, too many of us have lowered our standards, totally discarded moral values and joined forces with the media by disrespecting, degrading and exploiting ourselves.

A lack of moral values has become so common place in our society that no one, particularly women have no shame about anything they do anymore.  They view it as OK to get on national TV shows as guests and audience members where they openly brag about their sex lives as a single woman and, they condone the whorish behavior of themselves as well as other women.  There is no shame and nothing is sacred anymore; a total loss of dignity, pride and self-respect.

Granted, we all make mistakes and we all have been guilty of some sort of stupid biatch behavior with men at one time or another, maybe several times - myself included.  However, we must view our behavior as lessons learned, forgive ourselves, repent, strive to be better women, and love ourselves in spite of our wrongdoings - either past or present.  No matter how hard we may try - none of us will ever be perfect that's a given, as we are all imperfect beings.  However, that's no excuse not to strive to be the best we can be!

Thus, with that in mind, let's not focus on the negatives of ourselves or society - and get busy working on self and loving ourselves all the way to the altar!

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Friday, April 11, 2014

HOW ARE YOU MEETING MEN?

 Men Are Everywhere You Know!

As soon as you walk outside your door there will be plenty of opportunities to meet men.  They are at the gas station, the grocery store, malls, traffic lights, etc.   

I really can't quite understand how or why so many single women wanting a relationship and wanting to get married, leave home not looking their absolute, drop-dead gorgeous best!  

What are you thinking, or not thinking?  Don't you realize that Mr. Right can show up, anytime, anywhere and anyplace? I personally know women who don't bother to get all dolled up unless they are going to the club, as if this is the only place to meet men. Outside of the club, they walk around town looking like hell and all broke down.  

Quite frankly, clubs should be the last place to look for a good man.  Go there to have fun - but not to meet men, as few good guys hang out in clubs.  Now happy hour on Friday evening after work is an entirely different story, plenty of good guys go to happy hour with co-workers.  However, they fan out and go home prior to the late night club crowd (before 10 pm).  Remember, the booty seekers come out at night, right along with the freaks!

Also, you must put on a happy face.  Smile and greet everyone you come into contact - male, female and kids.  Develop a friendly and outgoing personality - speak to people, engage in casual conversations, observe and genuinely compliment if warranted.  This is my definition of flirting  - just being friendly, outgoing and engaging.  

Looking good and being friendly, outgoing and engaging, makes us feel good - one of many imperative steps toward learning to love and adore ourselves.  I rank these qualities right along with conducting oneself with dignity, pride and self-respect.  All important steps towards learning to love and value who we are!

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Wednesday, April 9, 2014

ARE YOU DESPERATELY SEEKING LOVE?

 "If Your Answer Is Yes, Please Stop It"

There is no room for desperation while seeking to meet the one, especially in this day and age.  You will know you are acting out of desperation when you are too eager and anxious to get to the mating stage with a man you have just met.  You are so desperate for him to like you, you makeup excuses to call him or text him, you text him explicit details of how you can rock his world in bed, and you over analyze his behavior on virtually everything.  

Believe it or not, some single women actually do these things to get men to like them, and they sink into deep depression when he doesn't respond the way they want him to.  Believe it, because I have observed it first hand.

Ladies, men know exactly what they want, and they don't need any persuasion from desperate women. Just know that this type of behavior doesn't occur with women who love themselves.  Women who know their worth, and women who behave with dignity, pride and self-respect.  This is why it is so important that you develop these qualities before even thinking about entering into the dating game seeking to find the ONE!!!

Men go after what they want with a vengeance, and self-loving women are very much aware of this fact.  Therefore, they never make an effort to influence men to spend time with them or to like them.  It is so upsetting to see so many women work so hard to get men to like them, as it is all so unnecessary and makes for a miserable life as a single women.  So, once again I am begging you to do whatever is necessary to fall madly in love with YOU before you start your search for love.


 
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Monday, April 7, 2014

GREAT SEX WON'T WIN HIS HEART!

Contrary to popular and degrading beliefs, rocking a man's world in bed is NOT the key to a man's heart.  It is however, one of the biggest fallacies ever told.  I have no idea who started this lie, but I do know that millions of single women have embraced it as truth.  Which is precisely why so many of you are so anxious to engage in sex outside of a loving and committed relationship.  

Not only is this a very degrading practice by women, it clearly shows they have absolutely no dignity, pride or self-respect about themselves, which in and of itself is truly sad.  My heart literally aches for the millions of women who are giving their most prized possession to men they barely know, men who have no loving feelings for them, and men whose only interest in them is sex, all in hopes of winning his heart and becoming his wife.  Not only is it sad, it is just plain stupid, which literally pisses me off!  Really ladies? Do you really want love and marriage more than you love yourself?  Really?

Don't get me wrong, there is not a thing in the world wrong with wanting to find true love and get married.  However, what is wrong, is wanting anything so badly you are willing to sacrifice your dignity, pride and self-respect to achieve it.  Secondly, you must realize that you can't win a man's heart or make a man love you, he has to voluntarily do that on his own.  However, you can make yourself more appealing to men by becoming the best YOU that you can possibly be, love yourself more than any other, and carry yourself with dignity, pride and self-respect.  This is far more difficult than just spreading your legs, which is why so many of you are failing in love!

As always, the choice is yours.  Are you willing to do the necessary work on yourself to achieve our inner most dreams, or will you take the easy way out, and continue to get screwed - literally; not once, but over and over again? 



“As long as you keep on doing what you’ve been doing, then you keep on getting what you’ve been getting.  If you want to change what you’ve been getting, then you’ve got to change what you’ve been doing.”  ~ Zig Ziglar
 


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Tuesday, March 4, 2014

You Don't Have To Be Lonely Just Because You Are Alone!

 

What I hear most from single women that are in search of the one and haven't found him yet, "I'm so lonely."  I'm always saddened by this statement as it originates from a place of fear, the fear of being alone.   You don't have to be lonely just because you are alone.  The fear of being alone for women is detrimental, as it causes us to settle for men less than what we really want.  And, once in a relationship, it causes us to contend with habitual cheaters,  and other hurtful, unfulfilling relationships.

Loneliness is a state of mind that signifies your unhappiness with your life as it is.  Therefore, you must work diligently at making yourself happy, as you should never rely upon other people to make you happy.  Happiness comes from within.   Work hard to create a happy life for yourself in spite of being alone.  Get into a happy place and build a rich, full and exciting life for yourself, one that you absolutely love.  Then, when you do meet the one, he will enhance your happiness, and not be responsible and burdened with creating a life for you and making you a happy person. I mean seriously, "who needs or wants that burden in their life"?

When I took on this endeavor, I found it easier to start with myself.  So I recommend that you  take the necessary steps to learn to love and respect yourself first and foremost.  You do this by doing some serious inner and outer self-evaluation.  Anything you don't like about yourself - change it; with the goal being to be the best you possible!  

Follow these links to get started and develop a plan:


The Internet consists of a wealth of information, some good and some bad.  Learn to decipher the difference and utilize this information highway.  It has helped me tremendously in my quest to fall madly in love with ME and to become the best ME possible. Make both your goal and life will become much more enjoyable as you wait patiently on the one!!!

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Wednesday, February 5, 2014

TAKE PRIDE IN YOUR APPEARANCE FOR YOU!


Christie Brinkley Turns 60
As we all know by now, the legendary fashion model, Christie Brinkley turned 60 on February 2, 2014.   She looks amazing and at least 20+ years younger.  Why?  Because she takes pride in her appearance and obviously takes really good care of herself.

I am an advocate for every woman no matter our age, to strive to be the best that we can possibly be in all aspects of our lives, especially in our appearance.  Not to catch a man, but to feel good  about ourselves.  It's not a myth that we feel good when we look good!

Wanting to look good is not superficial or shallow thinking as many believe.   It's a matter of dignity, pride, self-respect and loving you some you.  Make it a top priority in your life to be the best you can be.  Stop being satisfied with being mediocre, average and ordinary, strive to be extraordinary, fit, fabulous and glamorous.  When we know we look fabulous, we tend to walk taller and smile broadly.

Taking pride in your appearance and looking good is not about vanity, it's about boosting your confidence, self-worth and self-esteem by treating yourself special because you're worth it.  Once you get into the habit of treating yourself well, special and deserving of the best of everything, you will not allow others to treat you any differently.  You will come to expect being treated well.

Taking pride in your appearance is one of the first steps in learning to fall madly in love with YOU, rebuilding your self-esteem and self-confidence.  It's also exciting and a lot of fun.  So go for it and have a ton of fun in the process!

Ms. Edna gives sound dating advice to single women. Advice, if followed, guarantees your success in creating a loving relationship with a GOOD man that results in marriage. Log onto msedna.com daily and learn how to love yourself all the way to the altar! THIS BLOG IS COPYRIGHTED - ALL RIGHTS RESERVED © msedna.com 2007-2014 Disclaimer: All images posted on this site are copyrighted by their respective owners. MsEdna.com makes no claims of ownership or credit for these photos whatsoever unless duly noted.

Tuesday, January 14, 2014

STOP LOOKING FOR THE ONE & JUST HAVE FUN!



So many of you are so intent on meeting "Mr. Right", you can't even enjoy dates because you are too busy interrogating the poor guy with probing questions trying to determine if he's the ONE!  Hopefully, prior to the first date, you have done your homework and determined if he's a bad boy, a felon or married, etc.  That's all you need to know, then exercise caution in protecting yourself until you get to know him better before divulging too much personal information.  

Plan a fun date, meet him at the chosen venue and have a blast.  It takes time, and spending time to discover if a man is a possible candidate for the ONE.   Therefore, slow your roll and give a relationship time to develop, that is, IF there is going to be relationship.  Time will tell if he's a man you admire, respect, look up to, and who meets your other criteria and, if you meet his.  Men have standards also you know.

In closing, have fun, enjoy each other's company, allow nature to take it's course, and don't force anything!


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Monday, November 18, 2013

Best Man Holiday

The Cast of  "Best Man Holiday"
Dragged myself off of my sick bed and crippled off to see "Best Man Holiday"  on Saturday and it was well worth the effort.  How refreshing to see a black movie that wasn't produced by my idol, Tyler Perry that depicts blacks in a positive and uplifting light.

The men were revealed as loving husbands and fathers, a far cry from Hollywood's usual portrayal of black men as thugs, deadbeat dads and horrible mates.  You would have thought they learned from the success of the Huxtables.  But thank GOD for black producers who are now following Tyler's lead and producing our own movies, portraying the majority of blacks rather than the minority.  I love it!!!

Once again, we showed Hollywood that we show up in droves to see movies that portray us in a positive light, not related to slavery, and not produced by Tyler, evidenced by "Best Man Holidays" box office success this weekend.  If you haven't seen it - go see it!


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