Wednesday, August 10, 2016

Being Desperate For Anything Is Never A Good Thing!

 "Especially Desperate For A Man To Love You"
There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to love and be loved; in fact it's normal.  However, everything is wrong with being desperate to have it.  When we are desperate, we do stupid things and attract undesirables.  Thus, it is extremely important to remove yourself from desperation when in search of love, and attract high-quality men.  

Again, you must love yourself first, and then you won't be desperate to have someone else love you.  Why? Because, you are happy and content within yourself - with or without a man.  And, you know, like you know, like you know, that true love will find you sooner or later.  It will be sooner, if you are a self-loving, confident, cheerful, friendly, caring, and happy-go-lucky woman.  

In closing, get busy ladies, learning how to love yourself all the way to the altar with a great guy!

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Monday, August 8, 2016

THE INCREDIBLE BENEFITS I DERIVED FROM SELF-LOVE

 

In my personal self-love journey, I found that I’m more interested in pleasing me than I am others.  This came as a welcomed change, having spent the majority of my life ‘people pleasing’.  For the past ten (10) years, my life has been about making myself happy, pleasing, loving, and honoring me.  

Also, since falling in love with ME, I’m much more self-confident than I’ve ever been, and I take better care of me.  This came about, solely, because I love the dignified, self-respecting, caring, forgiving, and lovable person that I’ve become.   

Trust me when I tell you, that I had some horrible situations to forgive, but my faith in GOD made it doable, which in turn healed me from many wretched situations.  Consequently, I’m much more at ease in asking for forgiveness.  Harboring grudges and resentment does more harm to us, than it can ever do to the perpetrators.

 
 When we forgive someone, or ask for forgiveness, this is not to say that the person or we are selves deserve forgiveness, or that we approve of the wrong we committed, or that was committed against us.  Or, that we want to welcome them back into our lives.  It merely releases one from a wrong committed. GOD forgives our sins, so we in turn, must forgive others.


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Monday, August 1, 2016

HAPPY WIFE HAPPY LIFE IS CRAP!!!

 "Remove This Mantra From Your Vocabulary"
No man or woman should put their own happiness aside just to please another.  When we satisfy our own needs to be happy, those around us reap the rewards of our happy demeanor.  If what makes you happy, makes your partner unhappy, you have made a poor choice in your selection of a mate.  The hand writing is on the wall, “You Are Mismatched!”

Yet another reason ladies, to make your dreams, aspirations, values, etc. known during the early stages of dating, and prior to entering into an exclusive relationship; while encouraging men to do the same.  Each gender, should make a point of determining compatibility via conversations, long before considering someone as a partner.  

If you are dead serious about seeking true love and a happy marriage, you must stop being afraid to make your needs, desires, etc. known.  If you have done the necessary work on yourself first, prior to dating, this won't be a problem as this is only one of the factors that comes naturally to self-confident 'classy women'.


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Friday, July 29, 2016

DATING GAME PLAYING IS NON-EXISTENT FOR CLASSY, CONFIDENT WOMEN!

"This Is Why Working On Yourself Prior To Dating 
Is Crucial"
 When you love yourself, you become top priority in your life and you stop putting the needs of other above your own.  You become self-confident, because you value yourself and realize your worth.  Your self-esteem soars, as you cease relying on the approval of others to feel good about yourself, because you know exactly who you are and you love it!  

Loving yourself is not about being narcissistic,  it's about loving yourself enough to live by high standards that protect you and uplift you, which naturally boosts your self-worth and self-esteem.  In a word you become 'classy'!

Classy women don't rely on relationships to make them happy, as they know and relish in the fact that they know how to make themselves happy. Their lives are fun-filled and very active, which releases them from "playing hard to get", because they are are hard to get.  Meaning - they don't have to pretend to be busy and have guys work around their schedules, as they are genuinely busy.  Bottom line - they have a life outside of the man they are genuinely interested in, and their high standards doesn't allow them to cancel out their obligations to accommodate him.

They have no need to worry about whether or not a man is interested in them, because they value themselves enough to know, that if he's not, there is something lacking in him, and not themselves.  They don't have to bore dates with how great they are, because they have no need to seek the approval of anyone, because they approve of themselves.  The blame game is a thing of the past for 'classy' women.  When things go awry, they look first within themselves and take full responsibility for their own actions, confident in the fact that if they didn't make a contribution to the dismantling of a relationship, it just wasn't meant to be.

So ladies, do whatever it takes to "fall deeply in love with yourself," set high standards to govern your life, totally upgrade yourself, both inside and out, and build a rich, fulfilling and fun-filled life for yourself.   I promise you will become the 'classy' and confident lady, that we all admire.   When "Mr. Right" comes along, he will find a 'top-quality great catch', with a magnificent life, that he can slide into!

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Wednesday, July 27, 2016

If He Cheats On You - He Doesn't Love you!

This Is A Bitter Pill To Swallow For Sure! 
This has always been my philosophy, as I could never understand how you could hurt someone so deeply that you profess to love; the fact is you can't. 

Therefore, know that if he's cheating on you, he was never in love with you, or, he has fallen out of love with you.  Bottom line, "you've got to let him go,"  and stop wasting your time, love and energy on a cheater.  Regroup and find a man to love that truly loves you in return.
 
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Tuesday, July 26, 2016

BEWARE OF MEN WHO REFER TO THEIR EXES AS CRAZY!

 "It's Usually Not THEM, But HIM Who Is Crazy"
This is a cope-out, and you can rest assured that you are dealing with a man who doesn't take any responsibility whatsoever for his own shortcomings or behavior.  My 2nd ex has been married four (4) times and he refers to all of us as crazy.  When I met him, he told me his first wife was crazy, when he divorced me after 10 years, he told his mistress that I was crazy.  When he divorced her, he told everyone she was crazy.  When wife No. 4 divorced him, she was also crazy.  Trust and believe, I know who was deranged, and in ways I don't care to mention.  

At the end of the day, it was my bad, having ignored a series of 'big red flags' long before saying I do!   So ladies, if a man refers to his exes as crazy, run like hell, lock the door behind you, and throw away the key!


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Monday, July 18, 2016

I FOUND THIS HALARIOUS BUT TRUE TO A DEGREE!

One of my readers sent me this definition of classy  by www.simplepickup.com, that she stumbled upon while googling "Classy Women"!   As you will see after reading it below,  'classy women' are respected and held in high regard, so stay classy and fabulous ladies!


Below Is The Definition of Classy Women 
By: simplepickup.com  

 "A classy woman in my eyes is a different type of breed of woman, she knows the game all too well, and has her vagina locked up with more padlocks than you can find at your local home depot.  She has a radar for suckers, and needy men, but she likes a challenge. Even if you have 20 million dollars in your account, she still won’t fuck with you ha? WTF is going on?  

I’ve met these women before, they even hate when you pay for their coffee, simple and plain. You crack a joke she doesn't find it funny, or you say something smart, she will call you out for it. Most men would automatically kick in bitch alert and try to calm the situation by saying, " You are very right, please like me, cause I will kiss your ass".

Classy women have very high standards when it comes to choosing males because of the reputation they have set for themselves.  If at any point they let you into their world by giving you the same attention you were seeking from them and you do not match their standards, then their reputation is damaged. Why would I go from driving a Ferrari and come back to Ford Focus? People are creatures of habit. If a classy woman is treated like a Ferrari and you are a Ford Focus, why should she fuck with you? The point is people like to associate with other successful people. Does this mean you have to go and be like Brad Pitt to get a classy woman? No, but at least act classy yourself and you can get yourself a classy woman."


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Friday, July 15, 2016

SELF-RESPECT - THE #1 BENEFIT OF SELF-LOVE!

Self-respect is everything, and when we lower our standards for anyone or anything, we lose our self-respect.  Standards are set for a reason, in fact, various reasons.  Namely, they bring into full view what is and is not acceptable to us, our deal breakers, and our limits in any given situation. They are our own personal protections from heartache, anguish, pain, and loss of dignity, pride, and self-respect.

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Wednesday, July 13, 2016

THE 1ST STEP TO LOVING YOURSELF!

"Set High Standards & Live By Them Religiously" 
A woman without standards is doomed for disrespect, as well as an unfavorable reputation.  Whereas a woman with high standards is a woman who loves herself first and foremost, and who garners admiration and respect from others.  Also, note that those who can't respect your standards whether they agree with them or not, are not the type of people you should allow into your inner circle.   

Be prepared to be abandoned by some (good riddance), while others who really want to be a part of your life, be they male or female, will  rise up to meet them.   The good thing about loving YOU, you become your first priority and living a life of dignity, pride and self-respect becomes your primary goal at all costs. Thus, what others think will no longer be a major concern.

When you have high standards and genuinely love yourself, you expect to be regarded highly and you surround yourself with those that you admire, respect and hold in high regard.  When it comes to men - if you don't admire, respect or hold them in high regard, you avoid them like the plague!  As you are fully aware that "you are better off living your glamorous, and fun-filled life single, rather than settling for a man that you neither admire, respect or look up to!"

So get busy setting high standards for yourself as well as your intimate relationships and hold them true.  You will become the best YOU possible, you'll feel really good about yourself, and more importantly, you will respect yourself.  Which equates to you loving you some YOU, with all of your heart and soul.


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Tuesday, July 12, 2016

HIGH STANDARDS ATTRACT CLASSY MEN!

 "Classy Men Have High Standards Too"
In order to incorporate dignity, pride, and self-respect into your life, particularly your dating game, you must set some high standards for yourself.  Basically, what you will and will not do, or tolerate in your dealings with men.

Setting high moral values and standards, come easily to women who think highly of, and loves themselves.  Precisely, why I constantly encourage you readers to "fall head over heels in love with yourself," and create a phenomenal life for yourself prior to dating.  Doing so will eliminate 'desperation' from your search in finding a good man to fall in love with, win his heart, and get married.

Ladies, I can't stress enough how important it is to become "too good" to partake in certain behaviors, as well as "too good" to accept disrespect or mistreatment of any kind from the men you choose to go out with.   When your truly love yourself, and create your own happiness as a single woman prior to dating, it is highly unlikely that these situations will occur.

So, get with it!  Become the ‘classy’ lady that GOD created you to be!!!


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