Thursday, June 16, 2016

WENDY WILLIAMS DISHES OUT MORE BAD ADVICE!

SHE SAYS, IT'S PERFECTLY OK TO DATE A  MARRIED PERSON IF THEY ARE SEPARATED


Wow! What ill-advice.  Ladies, please don't follow this  low-moral based advice.  Unless you are just a glutton for punishment, avoid separated men and, recently divorced men like the plague.  Both are 'bad news bears', in neon lights.

The chances of a relationship of this nature becoming a lasting one are slim to none.  The odds of him just dating you to get over his wife are very high.  Even higher are the odds, that he's just using you to make his wife jealous.

Divorce is an extremely emotional experience, whether you are the one who initiated the split or not.  And, it takes time to heal from this emotional state.  Not only that, one needs time to evaluate the failed relationship, accept their share of the failure, and learn from the mistakes of both parties, so as not to make the same mistakes in their next relationship.  

Getting caught up in this emotional triangle is not advised, plenty of people have been murdered as a result of their decision to become involved with separated or recently divorced individuals.  

In closing, don't involve yourself with married men or recently divorced men.  Give high emotions on both parts ample time to settle.  My advise, don't date a divorced man until he has been divorced a minimum of two years.

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Monday, June 13, 2016

RECENT STUDY SHOWS THAT 40% OF U.S. WOMEN MEET OBESE CRITERIA!

 "57% OF THE 40% ARE AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMEN"

WHAT THE HECK IS GOING ON IN OUR SOCIETY?

Dignified moral standards have gone to hell in a hand basket, and now, a total lack of pride in ones appearance.  The recent study also revealed that 30% of American men are also obese, and that Asian Americans represent the lowest percentage of obesity in America.  Kudos to them!!!

The picture above used to be a rare sighting, now it's a very common occurrence.  In my 68 years, I have never seen so many fat people in my life.  Our society is in a sad state of affairs.  What next? 

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Friday, June 10, 2016

IF YOU ARE GIVING HIM ALL OF YOU - WHY SHOULD HE MARRY YOU?


WHAT IS THE POINT?

Quite frankly, this is an attitude that I can't justify condemning men for, as I believe in the philosophy, "why buy the cow when you are already getting all of the milk you want for free?” This is the logical thinking of the majority of men.  Thus, I don't blame them, as I'm a logical thinker also.  Which means change has to make sense and entail significant rewards; otherwise change isn’t necessary. 

Remember ladies, there is a vast difference between a boyfriend and a husband, although few women are treating them as such.  Even still, there is a difference, and if you want marriage to high-quality man, you’ll make the distinction.  You can do this by reserving certain things for the man who marries you.  E.g. sex.  However, if you choose to indulge in sex prior to marriage, make sure it’s not too regular or unbridled.   

Also, on the ‘for husbands only’ list, is cohabitation, bearing children, cleaning his home, doing his laundry, cooking for him regularly, running his errands, managing his finances, and caring for him when he’s ill, etc.  All of which are expected wifely duties of which you will receive awesome benefits in return.  E.g. financial support, a head of household, who will look after you, protect you, and love you unconditionally.  This is what you should strive for from a husband, and you will take pleasure in catering to him and granting him special privileges.

In closing, let him know that marriage to you comes with some awesome benefits!


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Wednesday, June 1, 2016

Joseline Hernandez - Absolutely No Shame In Her Game!



Many women like Joseline, have lowered their standards to disgusting degrees, and television and movies are encouraging this disgracing behavior.

Her behavior is really a damn shame, for such a beautiful young woman.  As for Wendy, she is definitely leading women in the wrong direction, and I seriously question her gender. 

Television has become so sexually oriented, I'm finding it harder and harder to watch TV anymore.  After yesterday's Wendy show, I'm so done with her/him (whatever the case maybe), and I'm tempted to stop watching.  However, I won't because someone needs to be around to encourage morality, when you are being so shrewdly encouraged to behave otherwise.

As you can see on the video, Joseline brags about only cheating on her husband with women, and a threesome with her husband and his baby mama.  She also brags about her attraction and love of sex with older women.  Meanwhile, Wendy is egging her on, even chastising the obviously disgusted audience, to "grow up".

In closing, I must reference Steve Harvey, "if you don't have any standards, get you some!"  Unladylike behavior is utterly disgusting.  Just because the whole world is obviously loosing any resemblance of high moral standards, stand firm in what you intuitively know is right from wrong!

I'm very much aware, that my stance on this subject, as well as my moral values, are viewed as old-fashion and antiquated.  However, I stand proudly beside them, as my goal is to be pleasing to GOD, and not man!  

I'm not perfect (no one is), and I don't profess to be. I've made my fair share of mistakes in life, I learned from them, repented, and have forgiven myself.  In the infamous words of the late Maya Angelou, "when you know better, you do better."

Consequently, I am adamant about us women living our lives with high moral values, dignity, pride, and self-respect!!!  Thus, in our world today, being called old-fashion and antiquated is a welcomed compliment.  And, much better than being labeled a "HO".


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Tuesday, May 31, 2016

KELLY OSBOURNE'S TWEET CREATES CONTROVERSY


 
KELLY OSBOURNE & MICHELLE PUGH (OZZIE'S MISTRESS)
 
Kelly Osbourne, the daughter of Ozzie and Sharon Osbourne, called out her dad's alleged mistress to her 4+million followers by tweeting the following:  "Anyone looking for cheap chunky low-lights, a blow out, and a blow job call ...... (Pugh's mobil telephone number)."   In an interview with PAGE SIX, Kelly stated that she published the tweet to teach Pugh not to "f**k with her family, her momma, or with her."
 
Consequently, some people are defending Kelly's actions, while others are condemning her for them, citing that she should be mad at her dad, and not the other woman.  I'm siding with Kelly, as it's a known fact that affairs with married men, not only hurt his wife, but his children as well, if he has any.  I've been in this situation, as have my children, so we fully understand the pain that Kelly is experiencing.
 
It's also a well-known fact (but rarely recognized), that married men can't cheat, if they can't find a woman to cheat with.  Trust and believe, I am by no means defending the actions of these cheating men.  However, I can't negate the fact, that men can't partake if noone is available.
 
If women would follow the biblical rule, "do unto others as you would have them do unto you" (Matthew 7:12), it would be impossible for married men to acquire mistresses.  Therefore, I have absolutely no sympathy for Ms. Pugh (if she's guilty), as there is not a woman alive who appreciates being cheated on.  Which is why I can't understand why some women so willingly inflict this type of pain on other women. 
 
Kelly publishing Pugh's telephone number, doesn't compare to her contribution to the disruption of this family.  In closing, "Ladies, stop behaving so stupidly with men, and remember - what goes around, comes around!!!
 
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Monday, May 23, 2016

As Women We Love To Love & Be Loved

Daily, it becomes more and more apparent to me that the greatest need of women is love.  We need and seek to love and be loved.  Unfortunately, some of us are so desperate to receive the love of a man, we sacrifice our dignity, pride and self-respect to have it; usually with disastrous results. 

No good ever comes about when we relinquish these qualities, we lose respect for ourselves, and in turn, it causes men to lose respect for us.  Respect is at the core of a man’s true love for a woman; good men find it difficult to love women they don’t honor and respect.

Thus, we must keep love in it's proper perspective, and stop making it the end to all ends.  Don't get me wrong, there is not a thing wrong with wanting to be in love and loved in return.  What's wrong, is wanting it so badly you relinquish your dignity, pride, and self-respect in desperate attempts to make a man love you.   There is nothing in this world, worth that degrading sacrifice.  

This is yet another reason ladies why we must learn to love ourselves, before we get out there seeking love from another.


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Thursday, May 19, 2016

RAVEN SYMONE'S VIEW OF OUR DIVORCE EPIDEMIC


Thirty (30) year-old Raven Symone, in a discussion on the 'VIEW,' Wednesday, May 18, 2016, stated that divorce is prevalent in our society, because "we have not been taught how to choose the right person."  What a powerful statement and oh so true.  I agree with Raven wholeheartedly, and this has been my stance for years, based upon my own divorce experiences.  For a young woman, she is very knowledgeable of life situations; subsequently, I am a huge fan of her presence on the 'VIEW'.

Because of our massive divorce percentages, as well as my personal experience with divorce, I am constantly reminding my readers of the  importance of carefully selecting the men we choose to date, especially if the relationship evolves into marriage. In my upcoming book, I address this subject extensively.

Most women, myself included, select men to marry at too young of an age and/or prior to maturity.  In both instances, we don't even know who we are as a person, much less the type of mate that can satisfy our needs in a long-term relationship/marriage.

This is yet another reason why I harp on 'falling madly in love with yourself' prior to dating.  When you love yourself, you  know exactly who you are, your basic needs, and what you stand for. If we don't know who we are as a person, how can we expect to choose the type of mate that can fulfill our needs?

Unlike 30-year-old Raven, it took me two divorces and the ripe old age  of 45, to learn these very valuable life lessons.  Which is precisely why I started this blog, so I could teach women the lessons I unfortunately, learned the hard way - through experience.  So listen up ladies, take my advice, and spare yourself the pain and agony of choosing the wrong mate.

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Monday, April 25, 2016

ARE YOU SINGLE, JEALOUS & LEADING A MISERABLE LIFE?


 "If So, I'm Here To Help You Come To Your Senses"


Jealousy of couples and humiliation over not having a man of your own, causes a painful loss of dignity, pride, and self-respect.  Loss of these qualities in women, almost always result in degrading ways of thinking for women.  In other words they resort to lowering their standards significantly in order to get any man they can, and in any way they can.  They exhibit behavior that is totally void of high standards in their selection of men, as well as their behavior in how they go about getting one. 

You can avoid this from happening, by vowing to yourself,  "I'm going to always enjoy a rich and fulfilling life, with or without a man".  You can do this easily once you become the best YOU possible both inside and out, fall madly in love with yourself, establish some high standards about yourself, and set them in stone.  Last but certainly not least - get a life.  Build a rich and fulfilling life for yourself that you love and enjoy (socially, civically & politically), surrounded by new and old friends alike.  

Successfully accomplish all of these things, and you'll become a 'male magnet,' for you've become a 'great catch'.  You're friendly, outgoing, confident, busy and, you look drop dead gorgeous wherever you go!  Now, you qualify to select a mate from the 'pick of the crop,' rather than the 'bottom of the barrel.'


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Friday, April 22, 2016

TEEN GIRL LOSES HER LIFE OVER A BOY!


"Females Fighting Over Men - Totally Ludicrous"

A 15-year old girl died yesterday, after she hit her head on a bathroom sink while reportedly fighting over a boy in the girls bathroom of Howard High School, in Wilmington, Delaware.  My heart goes out to her parents who are having to deal with this senseless death of their child.

Unfortunately, females fighting over a male has been going on for eons.  It's a despicable history that expresses how 'stupid' some females can be when it comes to men. I have never understood this stupidity in women, and I've been a victim of this foolishness once as a teen when dating my first husband, and once as a young adult. 

If and when you are negatively approached by another female about your boyfriend - you need to kick his ass to the curb, quick and in a hurry.  The handwriting is clearly on the wall, the type of man you are dealing with.  I learned this lesson the hard way after marrying a known womanizer.

If another female approaches you in this regard, this should  be every females first clue, that the man in question is not the type of male you need in your life, and certainly not worth risking your safety with a stupid female who deals with his cheating by attacking you.  

When I divorced my first husband after a succession of affairs, the last with one specific woman.  When I met her after divorce, the both of them were in disbelief that I didn't have hard feelings towards her.  I let them know in no uncertain terms, that my anger was towards him the man I married who vowed to be faithful and true - not her. She, did me a favor, as she was the last straw for me.  In fact, I pitied her, because she was totally unaware that if he "does it with you, he will do it to you".
 
Ladies, don't get mad at the other woman, remove yourself from the situation, and have empathy for her and other women in his harem, because "they don't have themselves shit."
 
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Monday, April 11, 2016

Stop Behavior That Destroy Your Chances of Getting A Ring On It!



"To Not Just Any Guy, But a Great Guy"

The biggest mistake that even smart women make with men is assuming that sex for a man equates to love.  They really believe that sex is the way to a man's heart.  I think most women come to this conclusion, because of the reputation men carry for their love of sex. 

In spite of this ladies, please understand that just because men have a reputation for being overly sexual, you must realize that 'great guys', have no desire to have a 'slut' for a wife.  Therefore, uphold dignity, pride, and self-respect in your dealings with men - be they good or bad.  

Hopefully, you've outgrown settling for bad boys since learning to fall madly in love with yourself, first and foremost!  Consequently, you're now putting a great deal of love and a ton of value over your body.  And, you no longer have an interest in men that you can't admire, respect, and hold in high regard. 
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