Thursday, February 4, 2016

WENDY WILLIAMS TAKE ON ULTIMATUMS



“Namely"



Yesterday, on The Wendy Williams Show, the subject of women giving the ultimatum of marry me or else, was one of her 'HOT TOPICS'.  Wendy relayed that she was totally against 'ultimatums,' period.  I concur with Wendy, about this "marry me or else", but I think for different reasons.
 
Here’s my take on this scenario.  As all of you, who know me well are aware, I am not an advocate of women 30 and over remaining in a relationship (especially a sexual one), for more than 18 months without a marriage proposal.  I say over thirty (30), as I don’t recommend marriage for males or females, prior to this age.  Simply because few of us know enough about ourselves, prior to turning 30, to make an informed decision about what we need, want, and must have in a spouse or a marriage. 

Honestly speaking,  35 years old, is the ideal age to choose a ‘lifelong’ mate, be you male or female, in my opinion.  By then, I believe that women know who they are, what they stand for, what they need, must have, and won't tolerate in men or relationships.  Men, of this age, have usually sown their wild oats, had their fair share of various women, their financial state is established, and they are ready, willing, and able, to embrace the idea of having just one sex partner.

So, what do you do when you find yourself in a mutually loving relationship with a man, and it’s been more than eighteen (18) months, and he hasn’t popped the question?  You say to him, "we're in love and have a great relationship, when are we getting married?"  If he really loves you, you won't have to resort to an ultimatum; he will give you an approximate date. 

If you have been following my advice, this discussion won't come as any surprise to him, as he was made aware that this is just one of your many high standards, when the two of you were merely dating.  To put it bluntly, he already knows the deal.  If he couldn't live up to it, he never would have entered into a relationship with you in the first place.   

This is just another prime example of why it's critical, to let men know all of your standards, up front and in person, during the initial stages of dating.  Therefore, if and when you decide to enter into a courtship, he will know exactly what he is getting into.  I know that some of you are afraid of running off a man, if you make him aware of your standards, goals, and aspirations. However, you should never be fearful of people discarding you, upon learning that you lead a life of dignity, pride, self-respect, and high standards.  

Remember, it's all in the delivery.  All of that head wagging, finger popping, anger, and demanding is just plain ignorant.  When various subjects arise, and they will, you just calmly, proudly, and confidently, state your views on the subject.  Who needs people in their lives who can't respect and appreciate their values.   Also, no man, good or bad, can appreciate a woman, who relays her values and opinions like a defensive fool.
Dating:  A Platonic relationship in which couples go out on dates in order to get to know each other better, and learn what each other is about; to determine their compatibility, and if a more intimate relationship that could possibly lead to marriage, would be in order.

Courtship:   - a period during which a couple develop a romantic relationship, especially one with the intent to marry.  

Remember, I will be offering you advice on all of these subjects and more in my upcoming book.  So stay tuned!

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Monday, January 25, 2016

Are You Prepared To Receive Mr. Rigtht?

 "Become The Best You Possible"


You can do and be anything you want to be.  Figure out what will make you a better person, both inside and out.  Then, devise a plan to make it happen, and stick to that plan until your desired results are achieved.

Stop settling for being mediocre and reach for the stars.  Change can only come about via YOU, so go for it!


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Monday, January 4, 2016

Is Weight Loss One of Your Resolutions?

"If So, Jump-Start It With A Pre-Diet"


I have always used pre-diets as a great prelude to long-term healthy dieting, as they give you a hefty weight loss of 5-10 lbs. in a very short period.  This has always encouraged me to remain on a longer term diet.  

The one I favor is the "7-day Cabbage Soup Diet. "    It really works, and personally, I don't consider it that unhealthy, as the diet  is loaded with fruits and vegetables.  So, if you're aspiring to lose 10 or more lbs., jump start your weight loss with this diet. Get the diet and recipe for one of the most tastiest cabbage soup recipes that I've found @:
 http://divascancook.com/wonder-soup-recipe-weight-loss-soup-7-day-diet-cabbage-soup/.

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

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Monday, December 28, 2015

LEAD A MORE FULFILLING LIFE IN 2016

"As You Know By Now, Positive Changes 
Begin With You"

Enjoy and Have Fun Entertaining Friends & Family!
In addition, you already know if you have been reading my blog for any length of time, that true love originates with the love of self, first and foremost.  Along with living a life of dignity, pride, and self-respect, you must cultivate a rich and fulfilling lifestyle, while waiting patiently for a top quality guy to enter your life, who will love, honor, treasure, and respect you.

Therefore, make time to entertain and spend time  with family and friends.  Volunteer, and pursue all of your interests.  When Mr. Right comes along, he will find a fun-loving, happy go lucky female who can incorporate him into her already fun filled and satisfying lifestyle.           

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Friday, December 25, 2015

MAKE 2016 THE YEAR YOU MEET MR. WONDERFUL



First of all, I want to thank all of you for being loyal followers of my blog.  I pray that all of you will take my advice, and take the necessary steps to make your self-confidence soar, and enhance your natural beauty and sex appeal.  

You can do it very easily once you fall madly in love with YOU, and incorporate dignity, pride, and self-respect into every area of your lives, first and foremost.  Then you will recognize that you are worthy of high quality guys being attracted and in pursuit of you.  Along with a high quality lifestyle.  

Consequently, you will lose all of those stupid dating practices that some of you have grown accustomed to, and only date high quality guys, with your newfound confidence, dignity, pride and self-respect.

I challenge all of you to vow to make these changes, and make 2016 the year that you fulfill all of your dreams.

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Wednesday, December 23, 2015

You Must Become The Great Catch You're Seeking

"Don't Get It Twisted, Great Guys Are In Search of That Special Someone Also"



The bottom line - If you looking for a great catch, you've got to become one, because great guys have high standards for that special someone also.  The following are essential to a woman becoming a great catch:  
  • Self-Confident 
  • Intellectual
  • Integrity/High Morals
  • Kind/Considerate
  • Caring
  • Friendly 
  • Outgoing
  • Fun Loving
  • Great Sense of Humor
  • Understanding
  • Empathetic
  • Polished & Well-Groomed
If you can think of other traits that you consider "great catch" traits, seek them as well.  My final advice on becoming a great catch and seeking one, never expect perfection in yourself or others.  It's non-existent! Just strive to become the best you can possibly be, both inside and out.

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Monday, December 21, 2015

There Is No Dignity In Sleeping Around

"Therefore Don't Risk Being Labeled A Ho"


Although I am a staunch advocate for a "No Sex Until Marriage Policy." I am also perfectly aware that committing to such a policy is not the desire of every woman and, I'm perfectly okay with that 

If you are one of these women, please know that you can still maintain an honorable reputation, as well as your dignity, pride, and self-respect in a sexual relationship.  All you have to do, is adhere to and stand firmly by the following guidelines:
  • Ensure that there is mutual love between the two of you, and both of you are committed to entering into a monogamous relationship, prior to sex!
  • Once in relationship, initiate and stand firmly by a "For Husbands' Only Policy,"  when it comes to fellatio, cohabiting, and bearing children.
  • Never allow your body to be used for longer than a year without a marriage proposal, alongwith a concrete marriage date set for the near future.
Adhering religiously to these romantic relationship guidelines, will ensure that your dignity, pride, reputation, respect and self-respect, will always remains intact!   

Last, but certainly not least.  Don't become a wife before you are one.  I've found that many women treat men they're involved with like husband's, when they haven't even been offered the job (LOL).   Remember, men are logical beings, and see no benefit in "buying the cow," when they are already getting all the milk they want for free!  Makes perfectly good sense to me.  How about you?

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Thursday, December 17, 2015

What To Do When Making Romantic Decisions!

"Ask Yourself, Does The Decision I'm About To Make Uphold My Dignity, Pride, & Self-Respect?"


If it doesn't, rethink the situation and find a solution that does.  Remember that we are now veering away from 'stupid man pleasing' decisions and/or behavior.  We are now dedicated to finding a totally awesome guy to marry with integrity.  We won't find him behaving stupidly.  

Great guys have high standards for the women they allow into their lives.  Just as we now do, therefore dedicate yourselves to making decisions that maintain your high moral values, dignity, pride, & self-respect.

The majority of women are highly intelligent - yet stupid when it comes to romantic involvement.  It's past the time to start behaving like the intelligent beings that we are.

Love you all!  Have an amazing day. 

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Monday, December 14, 2015

CHOOSING A BOYFRIEND/HUSBAND HAS TO BE ALL ABOUT YOU!

“It Will Ultimately Determine Your Long-term Happiness or Unhappiness, As Well As His”


As women, we have been constantly bombarded with advise as to how to please a man, what a man needs, what a man wants, and what we do to run them off. And, we still are to this day. I started this blog in 2007, to give women a totally different perspective.  As a result of women being totally focused on pleasing men, has led a vast majority to overlook their own needs, desires, and moral standards.  

Many women have erroneously began to believe that pleasing a man is the only way to have and succeed in a relationship with one. So not true, trust me!  My advice over the years has helped thousands of women meet, marry and sustain relationships with the man of their dreams.

Ladies, I'm not saying that we don't have a responsibility to please the men we chose to love, because we do to a certain degree. That is as long as his needs are in accord with our own core beliefs. However, the bottom line in selecting a mate, and maintaining a relationship is about pleasing YOU.  Loving and pleasing YOU, first and foremost, will ultimately lead to your pleasing your man and sustaining the relationship. 

The focus on pleasing men, has unfortunately led to many women lowering their values, morals and standards. I'm dedicated to assisting women all over the world, regain their dignity, pride and self-respect, especially when seeking love and marriage. These qualities have obviously been lost by a vast majority of women, just turn on your TV and you'll see.

Please recognize as you set out to meet a great guy to love and marry, that the two of you must be on the same page in terms of meeting each other needs, values, moral standards, and lifestyle preferences. The majority of all divorces are caused by one or more of these deficiencies in the marriage. I'm hopeful that most of you know by now, that love is just not enough to sustain a relationship. It takes far more than love to even remain in love. 

As you know, I've been married and divorced twice.  Finally after the second divorce, I realized the dire importance of wisely and carefully choosing a mate that meets this criteria. Therefore ladies, don't be the one that has to learn everything in life through experience. Take the advise of those who have been there and done that before you.  More importantly, those who learned and profited from their own negative romantic experiences - like me, Ms. Edna. 

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Wednesday, December 9, 2015

MARRIAGE WON'T SOLVE PROBLEMS

"However, It Will Definitely Magnify Them" 

Dear Ms. Edna:

My boyfriend and I are planning on getting married this summer, but he has several issues that really bother me, mainly his obsession with porn.  Do you think that once married, he will give up his obsession with porn?  Please let me know your opinion on this situation.

Thanks,
Anonymous 

Dear Anonymous:

As stated in the title and subtitle, "marriage doesn't solve problems, it magnifies them."  If he has an obsession/addiction to porn, along with other problems that bother you, marriage won't be a deterrent.  More than likely the addiction as well as other problems will escalate.   

Know that porn and masturbation go hand in hand, so don't be shocked once married, when you discover him masturbating while viewing porn, in spite of your willingness to be sexually active. 

Addictions of any sort are not cured because of circumstances and the desires of others.   The addicted individual has to want a cure and seek help in therapy and 12-step programs.  If this bothers you now - it will bother you even more once married.  I hope that answers your question, if not please contact me again with your concerns.

Sincerely,
Ms. Edna
 
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