Here’s my take on this scenario. As all of you, who know me well are aware, I am not an advocate of women 30 and over remaining in a relationship (especially a sexual one), for more than 18 months without a marriage proposal. I say over thirty (30), as I don’t recommend marriage for males or females, prior to this age. Simply because few of us know enough about ourselves, prior to turning 30, to make an informed decision about what we need, want, and must have in a spouse or a marriage.
Remember, it's all in the delivery. All of that head wagging, finger popping, anger, and demanding is just plain ignorant. When various subjects arise, and they will, you just calmly, proudly, and confidently, state your views on the subject. Who needs people in their lives who can't respect and appreciate their values. Also, no man, good or bad, can appreciate a woman, who relays her values and opinions like a defensive fool.
Remember, I will be offering you advice on all of these subjects and more in my upcoming book. So stay tuned!