Thursday, September 29, 2016

LOVE YOURSELF FIRST BEFORE SEEKING LOVE!



          Trust me when I tell you, loving yourself is a “totally awesome feeling.”  Figure out what will make you a better person, both inside and out; and then, devise a plan to make it happen.  Stick to the plan you devise until your desired results are achieved.  You must stop settling for being mediocre and reach for the stars.  Aspire to always treat yourself with loving kindness, and respect - basically like the royalty that you are.  Protect and take excellent care of your mind, body, heart, soul, spirit, and reputation.
When you love yourself, you will become so much happier, as you’ll become accustomed to being the best you can be, providing yourself with the best, getting your needs met, and being valued, honored, respected, and appreciated by a good man.  When a woman loves herself above all others, she comes to realize that she is a very special lady who deserves to be loved, valued, respected, appreciated, and married to a high-quality guy, whom she loves, admires, respects and holds in high regard.  Achieving all of these factors must become top priorities in your life.
In learning to love MYSELF madly, I learned to stop focusing on my faults and to focus on my strengths.  Once I started to do that, I started to really appreciate and love the person that I am, after realizing that my strengths far exceeded my faults.  
Another thing that has been instrumental in my falling in love with myself is being able to own the mistakes I’ve made in my life span, evaluating why I went there, instead of continuously persecuting myself.  Consequently, I have been able to lovingly forgive myself, just as I do others, and I have discarded those mistakes from my live permanently. In addition, I no longer need the approval of other to feel good about myself, as I now know who I am, I value my own opinion and self-worth, as I now realize that the most important person in my life is ME!
You might want to consider taking these steps in learning to fall madly in love with yourself as well.  Once you fall in love with you, and I mean deeply in love with yourself, your self-confidence, self-worth, and self-esteem will shoot through the roof.  In general, you will become a much happier person, and eager to conduct yourself with dignity, pride, and self-respect in all aspects of your life.
As you embark upon this challenge to become the best YOU possible, as well as a ‘classy lady,’ keep in mind that striving to be the best you can be, is not about becoming a perfect person or a narcissist.  It’s about becoming a better person, by improving your personality, setting higher standards to live by, as well as the condition of your mind, body, and spirit.   With your body, it’s about becoming healthy and fit, so that you feel good about how you look.  In case you didn’t know it, taking care of yourself physically, indicates that you have self-respect. 
Looking good is a great step to start with, in developing self-love, because it boosts our self-esteem and self-confidence tremendously.  I so want you all to be confident, and feel good about yourselves prior to dating in search of Mr. Right; it will prevent you from settling and making the stupid mistakes with men that we’ve all made in the past.  Good luck – I’m praying for you during these life-changing transformations.  The time and effort it will take to become the best YOU possible, will be worth it, and you will be viewed as worth the chase by ‘high quality’ males.


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Tuesday, September 27, 2016

ALICIA KEYS GOES MAKEUP FREE

 "Don't Follow Alicia's Lead, Makeup Is A Girl's 
Best Friend"
            BEFORE MAKEUP     AFTER MAKEUP
         As most of us women already know, makeup is our best friend, it makes us look beautiful, and feel good about ourselves.  No other beauty aid does more to make a woman look drop dead gorgeous than makeup.  Therefore, if you have considered following Alicia Keys lead, re-think your decision to join the ranks of the "plain Jane's" of the world.  Trust and believe, it's much more fun being fabulous and glamorous!  Love yourself too much, to accept not becoming the absolute “Best You Can Be,” in every single aspect of your life, both inside and out.   
        Along with feeling confident and good about ourselves when we look good, like it or not our physical appearance attracts attention from men.  If you are in the market for a loving relationship with a good mans that evolves into marriage – you want this attention.  Remember, Alicia has got a man!  So pull your shoulders back, strut your stuff, always look amazing, keep a smile on your face, be happy, confident, out-going, and friendly.   I promise, you will become a head turner of both admiring men and women alike.  Therefore, make becoming the best you possible in all areas of your being, your top priority. Why settle for just being ordinary and a plain Jane, when you can be fabulously glamorous with makeup?      
If you don't know how to apply your own makeup like a professional, go to youtube.com and learn (eyelashes and all).  These tutorial videos will teach you step-by-step how to properly apply makeup, contouring, highlighting, eyelash application, skin care, day and night looks, the products to use, as well as techniques that enhance your individual facial features.  Do yourself a favor and check them out. Then, sit in front of your vanity and, practice, practice, practice until you master it.  
Every woman should know how to apply her own makeup and pull herself together to look drop dead gorgeous at a moment’s notice; it's a must!  It's nice to have a makeup artist apply our makeup for special occasions - but for daily wear we need to know how to make ourselves look beautiful.   Do yourself a favor and put forth the extra effort.  You will not only look fabulous, you will feel fabulous, because looking good is a humongous confidence builder.  Don't be afraid to be a head-turner and stand out in a crowd - try it, you'll love it!

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Monday, September 26, 2016

MISTAKES ARE OPPORTUNITIES TO BECOME A BETTER YOU!

 “Therefore, Stop Condemning Yourself For Past Transgressions”

We all make mistakes, as we’re human, and we will continue to make mistakes, because we are not perfect and never will be.  However, as long as we acknowledge our mistakes, and learn from them, we can correct our behavior and build our character as a result.  Condemning ourselves for the mistakes we make in life, rather than learning from them, only serves to tear down our confidence, self-esteem and self-worth.

So what you've made some major mistakes in your dating life?  Learn from them, forgive yourself, move on, and never again repeat them.  Learning to date smart is all about learning to love YOU first and foremost,  making your own needs top priority, and not bowing down to the needs of men!
 

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Tuesday, September 20, 2016

CHOOSING ME BEFORE ME!


THE  BOOK THAT HELPED ME THE MOST IN MY QUEST TO FALL MADLY IN LOVE WITH ME & CEASE BEING A FOOL FOR LOVE!

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Christine Arylo is the author of this empowering book.  She states, “several years ago after watching so many of the smart amazing people I loved staying in and choosing the wrong relationships - doing the same thing I had done myself - suffering, starving for love, and settling - I decided to write a book about self-love + relationship, with the wisdom most of us should have received as young people but didn't .... so we have the tools & insights we need to choose relationships that support us to soar, where we are seen, valued, and treated as sacred". 
So go for it ladies, and get your copy TODAY!  If you follow Christine's advice as outlined in this book, it will change YOU and your love life for the better, and forever.
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Monday, September 12, 2016

UPGRADE YOURSELF AND BOOST YOUR SELF-CONFIDENCE

 "When We Look Good, We Feel Good About Ourselves"
Striving to be the best you can be in your personal appearance is not superficial, it's taking pride in how you look, and significantly boosting your self-confidence.  Don't just sit back and settle for being ordinary, go that extra mile and become glamorously amazing.  Become the well-dressed, well-groomed, glamorous, and confident lady that we all admire.  More importantly, don't upgrade yourself to attract men, do it strictly for you, so you can feel good about who you are.

Check out these 10 simple ways to improve your appearance:

http://www.futurescopes.com/improving-your-appearance/2751/10-simple-ways-improve-your-appearance-women 


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Wednesday, August 10, 2016

Being Desperate For Anything Is Never A Good Thing!

 "Especially Desperate For A Man To Love You"
There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to love and be loved; in fact it's normal.  However, everything is wrong with being desperate to have it.  When we are desperate, we do stupid things and attract undesirables.  Thus, it is extremely important to remove yourself from desperation when in search of love, and attract high-quality men.  

Again, you must love yourself first, and then you won't be desperate to have someone else love you.  Why? Because, you are happy and content within yourself - with or without a man.  And, you know, like you know, like you know, that true love will find you sooner or later.  It will be sooner, if you are a self-loving, confident, cheerful, friendly, caring, and happy-go-lucky woman.  

In closing, get busy ladies, learning how to love yourself all the way to the altar with a great guy!

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Monday, August 8, 2016

THE INCREDIBLE BENEFITS I DERIVED FROM SELF-LOVE

 

In my personal self-love journey, I found that I’m more interested in pleasing me than I am others.  This came as a welcomed change, having spent the majority of my life ‘people pleasing’.  For the past ten (10) years, my life has been about making myself happy, pleasing, loving, and honoring me.  

Also, since falling in love with ME, I’m much more self-confident than I’ve ever been, and I take better care of me.  This came about, solely, because I love the dignified, self-respecting, caring, forgiving, and lovable person that I’ve become.   

Trust me when I tell you, that I had some horrible situations to forgive, but my faith in GOD made it doable, which in turn healed me from many wretched situations.  Consequently, I’m much more at ease in asking for forgiveness.  Harboring grudges and resentment does more harm to us, than it can ever do to the perpetrators.

 
 When we forgive someone, or ask for forgiveness, this is not to say that the person or we are selves deserve forgiveness, or that we approve of the wrong we committed, or that was committed against us.  Or, that we want to welcome them back into our lives.  It merely releases one from a wrong committed. GOD forgives our sins, so we in turn, must forgive others.


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